The Dude about Relationships: Believe in Great Expectations
June 30th, 2009
First, I’m not a spineless cheesball single man, lethargically satisfied by going without a date on a Friday night. I’d wager readers haven’t seen me blog on great dating and compatibility. Not a fan of the drama.
Helplessness is an unfortunate human characteristic and entirely neglected in my values. Even so, Winter of 09 was an exception, I had to squelch a solid relationship that meant something to me but truly would never last. So one could say it has been a few years since I was dating. I don’t have the Great Expectations Denver I once did.
Single life has had its perks so far. I know one thing, I won’t lounge about, faithfully binging on Star Trek Enterprise on DVD. The number one factor behind this bout of incidental dating boredom? The people I know are settling down, and most ladies I meet at work are taken.
My former college pal, Josh, who will never have dating lameness, informed me he’s almost shooting from the same blind as I am. He joinedGreat Expectations Denver. I take to getting to know attractive ladies who share my passions. Go figure, I got real about my dating life and paid the membership fee to get started.
Here’s the deal, there ain’t room to complain due to not having plans when you haven’t stepped off the bench. Like our senior year baseball coach Paul Simms often said with a smile, “When the ladies don’t bite, bite them first, sonny.”
The man didn’t know my name. Still, Coach was a source of truth in a way nobody could understand. He meant well to everyone. This crazy series of singles events in Dallas here could have short circuted the old man’s brain.
At yesterday’s Great Expectations dating events I mingled with a ton of insightful and appealing women that meet my eye. I actually had a blast with some terrific remarkable singles. I ducked out of the mixer a little early with a promising exchange of numbers, and as a plus, I developed some political relationships for my job. Right on!
Put yourself in the play. You won’t go wrong if you don’t. Take it from me, believe in your own great expectations for yourself.
Cheers!
Josiah
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